Are you ready to grow the marriage you long for?
This gives you the training, coaching, and community you need, regardless of whether you are working on your marriage together or individually.
I have what you need…
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Couples following my program have a 96% success rate to creating the marriage they long for...
Are you ready to grow the marriage you long for?
After guiding hundreds of couples in transforming their marriages, I have found a repeatable pattern that produces a 96% success rate of a mutually satisfying marriage (even for those who were on the brink of divorce). And it’s ALL here, in this community membership: community with like-minded spouses, transformational communication tools, coaching, accountability, and couple's connections
IT’S ALL HERE! Whether you are a spouse or a couple, if you are ready to grow the marriage you long for, this membership is for you.
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Your tribe is here. Couples who are just getting started in marriage, facing the challenging phases of growing a family, suffered great loss, healing from infidelity, struggling with in-laws and family drama, feeling lonely in their marriages...you name it, you will find it in this group. While we are all facing our challenges, what unites us is our deep desire to create and experience the marriages we long for. Together we can encourage, support, invite, challenge, and celebrate our small and big wins.
Are you tired of feeling disconnected, defensive, and lonely in your marriage because you don't have the tools you need to get to the root issues so you can lead life-giving conversations? Inside the community you will find the proven tools you need in 10-15 minute easy-to-understand video lessons with practical application exercises that will guide you to creating lasting results in conversations with your spouse. These lessons will guide you step by step to becoming a life-giving communicator because creating the marriage you long for happens one conversation at a time. Let’s start up-leveling your conversations now!
This is members' favorite part! I (Julia) am a certified transformational coach because coaching is the best way to see what is getting in the way of what you desire. During the monthly Zoom Communication Labs, I will coach 2 to 3 spouses or couples to breakthroughs. Whether being coached or watching, you will see aspects of yourself you don’t know you needed to in order to create what you long for. Each Communication Lab will be available for re-listening, referencing the specific lessons covered in the interventions for deeper learning and application.
Weekly Play Time Ideas, Chat Time Prompts, & Conversation Starters
If you prefer listening on the go, each lesson is available in video and audio versions
Being in the work with others creates a natural experience of accountability
"This is the most connected I have felt to my wife!"
These tools and our couple connections is really helping! Usually, we go on a walk and just try and get it done. On this walk, we walked our whole neighborhood for about an hour, and it felt like time stood still, and we were simply “with” each other. It felt really good and set the tone for connection all day.
Jon & Michelle
TRANSFORMATIVE EDUCATION
REAL LIFE TRANSFORMATIONS
"Our marriage feels so much stronger!!"
We are both so all-in! The consistent chat and play times are a game changer, too. We were letting life get away from us. But in the last few weeks, we have come so much farther in our chats, knowing we had them coming.
Ben & Sarah
"We are working through fights in minutes rather than years!!"
It felt like one of our typical fights of old, with us both in separate rooms, upset, sure that this cloud would be hanging over the rest of the trip. Then, we both realized we had agency in the situation and could work it out. These tools and coaching are not giving us freedom from fighting or misunderstandings, but freedom from them controlling our lives.
Jen & Aaron
let's work together
Lonely, defensive, stuck or longing for more in your marriage?
You don’t have to do this on your own!
Join other spouses and couples who are transforming their conversations with their spouses and experiencing deep connection and support in the Marriage Growth Community.
Do you feel like you are...
Are you walking on eggshells, second-guessing what you can and cannot say because it might upset your spouse
Are there more and more conversations you avoid which is limiting what you can talk about?
Do you feel alone and like you are the only ones struggling as you watch other couples enjoying life and seeming to have it all together?
Are arguments, big and small, leaving you feeling disconnected for days and sometimes wondering if you married the wrong person?
Do you feel hurt, disconnected, or starting to live more separate lives as you work to avoid another fight or make decisions together?
Marriage Growth Community is a membership program where spouses create the marriages they long for through group coaching (Communication Labs), gaining new tools, connecting with other growing spouses, and being guided by Julia. All for less than the cost of a lunch date! It is the most affordable, thorough, and all-encompassing support resource that has ever been available for marriage growth!
Transformational coaching is a unique approach to growing your marriage. Unlike counseling that tends to focus on your past, transformational coaching focuses on the future you want in your marriage and looks at whether the choices you are making today are leading you away from or towards that. It gets to the belief systems which are driving your current choices so you can produce lasting results.
Is this a good fit for you?
Marriage is a conversation. It is either coming to life or dying one conversation at a time. Research shows that successful marriages have a ration of 5:1 of positive to negative interactions. If you are ready to lead life-giving conversations in your marriage, this is created for you.
The marriage that you long for requires you standing for something that is bigger than you. It will call you up and grow your character in a way nothing else can. The marriage that you long for becomes possible as you expand your capacity to be a vessel that love, connection, and empathy flow through.
In today’s world, the norm is to coast and wait for your spouse to pursue you which leads to failing marriages. Intentionally growing your marriage isn’t easy and it takes support and guidance. If you want and need the support of a community of like-minded spouses all working on their marriages and calling each other up, this is for you.
"Our arguments are improving into discussions, which have structure and were starting to see things as a team, and not as much as adversaries"
Replacing butting heads & shutting down with open & honest communication
How does this sound?
Having conversations that actually produce results & lasting change
Being teammates working side by side through challenges of life
Guidance to specifically know what is needed when you get stuck
Resolving conflict so past offenses don’t keep coming up in conversations
that sounds amazing
Experiencing the relationship you long for doesn't magically happen! It takes communicating clearly, learning to be honest, & truly listening to each other.