Turn lonely conversations into deep connection

Are you ready to turn disconnected, frustrating, and repeating conversations into connected, life-giving, and productive ones? This gives you the training, coaching, and community you need, regardless of whether you are working on your marriage together or individually.

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That's why divorce rates are so high and you still feel stuck (even after reading #allthebooks)

I have a success rate of 96% because my methodology teaches you how to:


Most marriage advice out there is useless...

Do what works!

real talk:

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  • open up and have REAL, productive conversations

  • knock loose disagreements you've been hung up on for years (or even decades)

  • rebuild vulnerability and trust with each other so you can each feel safe to be seen & heard
  • arguments that go round and round without ever resolving
  • shutting down because you don't feel heard anyway
  • comparing your marriage to "those" perfect relationships
  • feeling isolated and alone in your marriage problems

Say hello to:

  •  resolution, forgiveness, and healing together
  • sharing openly with your spouse because you feel safe and understood
  • connection with other couples who just "get it"
  • focusing more on your progress than your frustrations

In this all-in-one marriage growth membership you'll....

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I've helped hundreds of couples transform their marriage with my proven methodology...now it's your turn.

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Your proven roadmap for transforming your marriage (yes, even yours) from cold co-existence to a lifetime of adventures and true love.

Introducing:

with Julia Woods

The only thing standing between you and the marriage you thought you'd have is...

  • New Ways of Thinking
  • Guidance
  • Weekly Play & Chat Time
  • Community

Once you plug into the community, here is what you can expect...

Lara - "I feel unstuck and am making so much progress in developing my internal resources. 

Jen - "We are better at owning what we need and resolving conflict instead of letting it escalate"

Aaron - "We no longer live in fear of the other shoe dropping and embrace breakdowns as an opportunity to know and love each other more completely"

Jennifer - "We were able to pull off a giant party this weekend without fighting about it at all!"

Laura - "I'm starting to think about the outcomes I want to achieve and how my words and responses will (or will not) serve my desired outcomes.

Buddy - "Huge breakthroughs on how we reconcile for example, how I approach forgiveness!"

Mike - "Things do not escalate and get out of hand. We can resolve things quicker."

Sarah - "Man We are so much closer!!"

Bonus

Weekly Play Time Ideas, Chat Time Prompts, & Conversation Starters

Couples Connection

If you prefer listening on the go, each lesson is available in video and audio versions

Audio lessons

Being in the work with others creates a natural experience of accountability

Accountability

"This is the most connected I have felt to my wife!"

These tools and our couple connections is really helping! Usually, we go on a walk and just try and get it done. On this walk, we walked our whole neighborhood for about an hour, and it felt like time stood still, and we were simply “with” each other. It felt really good and set the tone for connection all day. 

Jon & Michelle

TRANSFORMATIVE EDUCATION
REAL LIFE TRANSFORMATIONS

"Our marriage feels so much stronger!!"

We are both so all-in! The consistent chat and play times are a game changer, too. We were letting life get away from us. But in the last few weeks, we have come so much farther in our chats, knowing we had them coming. 

Ben & Sarah

"We are working through fights in minutes rather than years!!"

It felt like one of our typical fights of old, with us both in separate rooms, upset, sure that this cloud would be hanging over the rest of the trip. Then, we both realized we had agency in the situation and could work it out. These tools and coaching are not giving us freedom from fighting or misunderstandings, but freedom from them controlling our lives.

Jen & Aaron 

You'll never have a perfect marriage, but with the right resources and accountability, you can use each season as a growth opportunity. This membership is the ongoing support ready for you when you're falling into disconnection again. 

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Lonely, defensive, stuck or longing for more in your marriage?
You don’t have to do this on your own!
Join other spouses and couples who are transforming their conversations with their spouses and experiencing deep connection and support in the Marriage Growth Community.

Do you feel like you are...

Are you walking on eggshells, second-guessing what you can and cannot say because it might upset your spouse

Are there more and more conversations you avoid which is limiting what you can talk about? 

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Are you frustrated and want more in your marriage?

Do you feel alone and like you are the only ones struggling as you watch other couples enjoying life and seeming to have it all together? 

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Are arguments, big and small, leaving you feeling disconnected for days and sometimes wondering if you married the wrong person? 

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Do you feel hurt, disconnected, or starting to live more separate lives as you work to avoid another fight or make decisions together?

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Look No Further
Marriage Growth Community was created for you!

Marriage Growth Community is a membership program where spouses create the marriages they long for through group coaching (Communication Labs), gaining new tools, connecting with other growing spouses, and being guided by Julia. All for less than the cost of a lunch date! It is the most affordable, thorough, and all-encompassing support resource that has ever been available for marriage growth!

Communication Labs

Communication
tools

Going Deeper
Exercises

Membership perks

Community Support

$59/mo

+ MONTHLY COMMUNICATION LABS (GROUP COACHING)

+ QUICK EASY TO UNDERSTAND TRAINING VIDEOS

+ GOING DEEPER EXERCISES FOR EACH TRAINING

+ New vIDEO TRAININGS ADDED EACH MONTH

+ COMMUNITY SUPPORT 24/7

+ LIbrary of PAST COMMUNICATION LABS 

+ EARLY ACCESS TO upcoming  EVENTS & RESOURCES

+ BONUS: WEEKLY PLAY & CHAT TIME IDEAS

Founders Special (Reg $79)

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Working with Julia has totally changed my marriage, and my relationship with my children, and really improved my relationship with my extended family. 

-Laura

Transformational coaching is a unique approach to growing your marriage. Unlike counseling that tends to focus on your past, transformational coaching focuses on the future you want in your marriage and looks at whether the choices you are making today are leading you away from or towards that. It gets to the belief systems which are driving your current choices so you can produce lasting results. 

Is this a good fit for you? 

Want lasting change 

Marriage is a conversation. It is either coming to life or dying one conversation at a time. Research shows that successful marriages have a ration of 5:1 of positive to negative interactions. If you are ready to lead life-giving conversations in your marriage, this is created for you.


Want life-giving conversations 

The marriage that you long for requires you standing for something that is bigger than you. It will call you up and grow your character in a way nothing else can. The marriage that you long for becomes possible as you expand your capacity to be a vessel that love, connection, and empathy flow through.


Want to grow a marriage you love

In today’s world, the norm is to coast and wait for your spouse to pursue you which leads to failing marriages. Intentionally growing your marriage isn’t easy and it takes support and guidance. If you want and need the support of a community of like-minded spouses all working on their marriages and calling each other up, this is for you.


Want community

"Our arguments are improving into discussions, which have structure and were starting to see things as a team, and not as much as adversaries"

-Alex

Replacing butting heads & shutting down with open & honest communication

How does this sound?

Having conversations that actually produce results & lasting change

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Being teammates working side by side through challenges of life

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Guidance to specifically know what is needed when you get stuck

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Resolving conflict so past offenses don’t keep coming up in conversations

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that sounds amazing

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Experiencing the relationship you long for doesn't magically happen! It takes communicating clearly, learning to be honest, & truly listening to each other.