I grew up in a violent home as the middle child of seven. I knew I didn't want to communicate in my marriage the way my parents did. I assumed based on how in love I felt, when Jeff & I married, we would communicate differently. Yet, as years passed, in the midst of having children & starting a business together, the disrespect and unresolved conflict grew. I had to find another way to communicate because I didn't want to repeat my past.

My superpower is helping couples learn to see & understand each other even in difficult conversations .... so they can spend their precious time laughing & enjoying life together.

I knew if I wanted to become the spouse I longed to be, I was going to need to learn how to understand and control my emotions, truly forgive, and learn to listen to my husband rather than get defensive in challenging conversations. So, I built my 3 part Communication Renovation System for myself. I am still shocked at how quickly it began transforming me and my marriage.

I started sharing it with other couples on coaching calls, and they started experiencing the same results we were. And now, this system is helping couples all over the world shift from feeling disconnected and lonely to feeling seen & heard by each other.

I BELIEVE:

Marriage is the backbone of a nation and if that is strong, the nation will be strong. 

I'm NOT ABOUT:

Superficial chit chat, giving up, letting dreams die, or wasting time.

YOU CAN FIND ME:

Enjoying life with my husband, our kids & granddaughter, on coaching calls with my delightful clients, making dinner, & enjoying a glass of wine & laughing.

daily rituals

Morning gratitudes & reflection, cuddles with my sexy husband, on a hike, chatting with our kids, face timing our granddaughter, and exploring the world in our Airstream.