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Let's Grow the Marriage You Long For

Are you ready to truly feel seen and understood, experience new possibilities in your relationship, and connect in communication, even in conflict? That thriving relationship you've longed for is possible for you, and I'm here to help you build it.

Communication Courses, resources,  1:1 coaching, and Couples Retreats

Whether you want to deepen your relationship, grow your ability to communicate, are tired of feeling misunderstood and exhausted from having the same conversation over and over, you're in the right place. The tools, resources and programs I've developed have helped thousand of couples connect more deeply, learn to do conflict differently,  unpack damaging belief systems, and grow relationships they're proud of.  

Thriving, intimate, connected marriages don't just happen. Communication issues don't just go away on their own. If you want different results, you've got to take different actions. The tools are here, available for you — this is where your fresh start begins.

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It's time to stop wishing for more in your marriage and start investing in it.

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Our proven 3-part communication renovation system course will help both of you move from feeling disconnected and alone to feeling seen & understood no matter how difficult the topic.

Taking the Marriage Thrive course will help you discover how to take responsibility for yourself, communicate in new ways & grow the marriage you long for. 

The Marriage Thrive Course



You're ready to transform your relationship and turn defensive communication into increased connection (even if your partner isn't!).

"The tools we've learned from Marriage Thrive have helped us work through fights we've literally had for a DECADE in a matter of minutes."


"Think Katie's work is just for women? Think again. I'm a man (obviously), and my business tripled, too!"

Made six figures:


AARON & JEN are growing and healing together


"We are able to recognize patterns more easily, apologize and restart or try again when we see we’re heading down an unwanted path."

steve & whitney are transForming their communication


"Think Katie's work is just for women? Think again. I'm a man (obviously), and my business tripled, too!"

Made six figures:


"Before coaching I could rarely see the big picture of an argument and how my insecurities and judgements played a role. After coaching, I can now more easily see what I contribute to breakdowns and own my part in them."

buddy and jill are owning their contributions


"Think Katie's work is just for women? Think again. I'm a man (obviously), and my business tripled, too!"

Made six figures:


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Ready to turn Defensiveness into Connection?

Defensiveness can show up in many different ways ... blaming, criticizing, blowing up (etc.)! That is why I created this E-Book to help you turn defensiveness into connection in your relationship!

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"We went from dreading difficult conversations to actually looking forward to them!

And the best part is that within two weeks of being in Marriage Thrive and coaching, we were laughing and having fun with each other again!

Brandon & Chrissy

transformed their communication

It's Possible For You

"After 42 years of marriage, we are blooming again!"

As we apply the tools in Marriage Thrive and do Private Coaching calls with Julia, what we are learning about ourselves and each other is nothing short of miraculous. We are having connected conversations with each other and our loved ones as we listen, trust, and communicate in new ways.

Nathan & Michaela


"We went from barely surviving to new depths with each other we had no idea were possible."

We are still learning and choosing open & honest conversations which aren't always easy, but we see what can come from these types of conversations, we realize how much our relationship won't survive without them. If we had not done private coaching with Julia, we would have been so sad if we had missed out on what was possible for our marriage.

Michael & Katelyn

Feel Truly connected

Replacing loneliness & misunderstanding with seeing & understanding

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Having conversations that actually produce results & lasting changes




Being teammates working side-by-side through the challenges of life


Resolving conflict so past offenses don't keep coming up in new conversations


Laughing & joking around with each other as you fall deeper & deeper in love


Ready to Begin? 
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Sign-up or join the waitlist for one of our weekend couples retreats to connect + explore new possibilities together.

I'm Julia, your new relationship coach.

I am passionate about helping couples communicate well because when spouses know how to communicate, they can literally overcome any challenge in life together.

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