Marriage is a journey filled with ups and downs. We had marriage failures. The most significant low my husband Jeff & I faced was when I asked him for a separation because I didn’t know if I wanted to be married to him anymore. During that time, we discovered the 5 habits we had developed that had caused our marriage to fail and began developing the new habits that would forever transform our lives and marriage.

We want to offer you a beacon of hope through our raw honesty and hard-learned insights so you can transform your marriage now. Here are the 5 habits we began developing that saved our marriage.

Embracing Personal Responsibility:

• At the heart of a thriving marriage is personal responsibility. We spent 20 years pointing our finger at our spouse’s shortcomings. It changed everything when we started taking ownership of our own actions and attitudes. By each partner acknowledging the role they play in shaping the relationship, couples can cultivate self-awareness and pave the way for meaningful change.

Letting Go of Blame:

• Blame serves as a toxic poison in relationships, breeding resentment and limiting communication. We blamed each other for our marital woes. However, we learned that releasing blame and embracing empathy allows us to break free from this destructive cycle. By viewing conflicts as opportunities for growth, couples can foster a deeper sense of understanding and compassion.

Confronting Conflict Head-On:

• Conflict is a natural part of any relationship, yet many couples shy away from addressing it directly. We used to avoid resolving conflicts, allowing unresolved issues to simmer beneath the surface. Through trial and error, we discovered the importance of staying engaged during difficult conversations and seeking resolution. By prioritizing open communication, couples can navigate conflicts with grace and understanding.

Prioritizing Each Other:

• In the hustle and bustle of daily life, it’s easy to neglect the needs of our partners. Jeff & I let busyness consume our relationship, neglecting to prioritize each other amidst the chaos. However, we learned that carving out intentional time for connection is essential for nurturing a thriving marriage. By investing in quality time together, couples can strengthen their bond and weather life’s challenges as a team.

Cherishing the Gift of Marriage:

• Last but not least, we discovered the importance of cherishing the gift of our marriage. We discovered we had fallen into the trap of taking our relationship for granted, assuming that love would endure without effort.
• However, we learned that marriage requires ongoing nurturing and attention. By cultivating gratitude and acknowledging the fragility of their connection, couples can foster a deeper sense of appreciation for each other.

We hope that our journey of healing and growth serves as a powerful reminder that love has the power to triumph over adversity. If you want to hear more, I invite you to listen to the full podcast episode where Jeff & I share this and more. Your marriage deserves the investment, and this podcast may just be the catalyst for a brighter, more fulfilling future together.

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