read the latest post

The Blog

My superpower is helping couples learn to see & understand each other even in difficult conversations .... so they can spend their precious time laughing & enjoying life together.  

Welcome!

This is where I share tools for your marriage and ways to apply them so that you can have the fun, connected, & supportive marriage you long for.

get the free e-book now!

Ready to turn Defensiveness into Connection?

Defensiveness can show up in many different ways ... blaming, criticizing, blowing up (etc.)! That is why I created this E-Book to help you turn defensiveness into connection in your relationship!


free for you!

Hey friends, I’m Julia Woods, and today I want to share something close to my heart. This month, my husband and I are celebrating 34 years of marriage. Throughout this journey, I’m learning so much, and I find myself wishing I could go back and share these five lessons with my younger self. If you’re […]

Title: 5 Things I Wish I Knew About Marriage – Lessons from 34 Years Together

YouTube

read more

Marriage is often portrayed as a journey of togetherness, but what happens when two people live under the same roof yet don’t realize they feel lonely with each other? In this powerful episode of Hey Julia Woods, we meet Josh and Mandy, a couple who discovered they had drifted into what they call “parallel lives” […]

What If Your Marriage Looks Fine—But Feels Lonely?

Podcast

read more

The journey of marriage is filled with unexpected challenges, especially when it comes to emotional connection. On a recent episode of the Hey Julia Woods podcast, we explored the powerful testimony of Behn and Katie, a couple who transformed their relationship from emotional disconnection to genuine partnership in just two months. Like many couples, Behn […]

Our Arguments Deepen Connection

Podcast

read more

Listening is a fundamental component of love and connection, a point beautifully articulated by Paul Tillich, who said that “the first duty of love is to listen.” However, as humans, we often find ourselves listening selfishly. As a couple’s coach and trainer who has been married for 35 years, Julia is passionate about helping couples […]

Are You a Selfish Listener? Here’s How to Recognize and Transform Your Listening Habits

Uncategorized

read more

The journey from conflict to connection in a marriage is rarely a straight line. As evidenced in the latest Hey Julia Woods podcast episode featuring Chris and Laura, the path often requires both partners to confront uncomfortable truths about themselves and their relationship dynamics. Chris and Laura’s story is striking because they achieved what many […]

I’m Out! I Can’t Deal With This

Uncategorized

read more

In today’s fast-paced world, marriages often fall into a dangerous pattern of pure logistics. This is exactly what happened to Joe and Em, a couple who found themselves in a system where their relationship had been reduced to coordinating schedules, managing their four children, and handling household responsibilities. Through their candid conversation with Julia Woods […]

She’s a Control-Freak! He’s Unreliable

Uncategorized

read more

Introduction In today’s fast-paced world, where individualism often seems to reign supreme, the institution of marriage is frequently questioned. Some argue that marriage is outdated, a relic from times when societal structures required rigid roles between men and women. However, as a seasoned marriage coach and trainer, having navigated the joys and trials of marriage […]

The Timeless Relevance of Marriage: Beyond the Outdated Myth

Marriage Growth

read more

In a powerful episode of the Hey Julia Woods podcast, host Julia Woods sits down with Allie, who shares her transformative journey from walking on eggshells in her marriage to finding her authentic voice. What began as a crisis—Allie telling her husband Eric she wanted a divorce due to addiction—evolved into a profound journey of […]

I want a divorce because you are dishonest!

Podcast

read more

The connection between shame, productivity, and relationships is rarely discussed openly, yet it affects nearly every aspect of our lives. In a recent episode of the Hey Julia Woods podcast, Laura Perry shared her remarkable journey of becoming ten times more productive after addressing the deep-seated shame that was sabotaging her life, business, and marriage. […]

Trying to be Superhuman Killed My Productivity

Podcast

read more