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Navigating the challenges of parenthood while dealing with personal struggles can be overwhelming. In this episode, we sit down with Kyle and Mallory, a couple who have been married for ten years and have three young children. Their journey through the darkest chapter of their lives reveals profound insights into marriage, resilience, and the transformative […]

Parenthood while dealing with personal struggles.

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Learn How to Heal! Do you sometimes find it hard to respect or even like your spouse? Are you starting to feel a growing poison of contempt within you, harming your relationship? In a recent YouTube episode, I guided viewers through understanding contempt, its dangers, and how you can heal it for a healthier marriage. […]

Dealing with Contempt in Marriage Are You Struggling with Contempt in Your Marriage?

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Thirteen years ago, my world was turned upside down when Jeff, my husband, confessed to an affair. It was a revelation that forced us to face deep-seated issues within our marriage that had been festering long before that moment. In our latest podcast episode, Jeff and I dive deep into this painful chapter of our […]

Transforming a Marriage: Overcoming Infidelity, Breaking Generational Patterns, and Embracing Personal Growth

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Do you ever feel like you’re stuck in a cycle of frustration and disconnection in your marriage? It’s easy to get bogged down by the small annoyances and daily stresses that can cloud our perspective. But what if there was a simple way to shift your mindset and bring more positivity and connection into your […]

How Gratitude Can Transform Your Marriage: Simple Steps to Deepen Connection

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Marriage is often thought of as a partnership, with both spouses contributing equally to its success. But what happens when only one partner is willing to do the work? Is it possible to save a marriage when you feel like you’re the only one fighting for it? The answer is yes, and in my latest […]

Can One Spouse Save a Marriage? Discover the Power of Taking the First Step

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Can a relationship survive the rough patches that come with decades of marriage? This question is explored in-depth in our latest podcast episode, where we sit down with Jeff and Melinda, a couple who have navigated the ups and downs of 35 years together. Around their 15th anniversary, their journey took a challenging turn as […]

On Two different paths in the same marriage- Special Podcast

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Are you worried that your marriage is in trouble and that divorce might be inevitable? Have you noticed the love and passion you once shared with your spouse fading away? Are frequent fights making you anxious about the future of your relationship? If these concerns sound familiar, I want to share with you what I […]

5 Critical Signs Your Marriage Might Be in Trouble and How to Fix Them

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Let’s look at a listener’s question that many spouses grapple with: “How do I know if our marriage is still worth the effort or if it’s time to move on?” This particular question came from Anastasia, and it’s a perfect opportunity to delve into an issue that affects many relationships. When you’re questioning the viability […]

Navigating the Question: Should I Stay or Move On in My Marriage?

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In this episode, we dive into our guests, Jared and Kurrin’s story of how they transformed their failing marriage. They both felt hopeless, and Jared said it would take a marriage miracle to turn their 15-year marriage around. This episode is rich with insights, particularly valuable for couples who find themselves struggling to balance family […]

Honestly…we aren’t good 

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