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My superpower is helping couples learn to see & understand each other even in difficult conversations .... so they can spend their precious time laughing & enjoying life together.  

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Have you ever been walking or running and all-of-sudden your foot slips into a hole and completely trips you up? In marriage we also have these metaphoric holes that can take us and our spouse out. I like to call these Marriage pitfalls. In my latest YouTube episode, titled “Top Tips to Avoid the 5 […]

Top Tips to Avoid the 5 Common Marriage Pitfalls

Marriage Growth

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In the world of personal growth and self-improvement, I, Julia, have discovered that one of the often overlooked keys to more fulfilling relationships is emotional maturity. Over the past decade, I have grown so much in navigating my emotions, communicating effectively, and taking responsibility for my inner world. In this blog post, I invite you […]

Transform Your Conversations with Emotional Maturity: Julia’s Journey!

Communication Growth

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Have you ever found yourself feeling bitter and resentful, trapped in a situation that left you feeling like a mere shell of your former self? If so, you’re not alone. In a powerful podcast episode, we delve deep into one woman’s transformative journey from bitterness to self-discovery, inviting you to listen in and discover the […]

A Marriage Journey from Resentment to Peace

Podcast

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Unlocking the Key to a Life-giving Marriage: The Art of Negotiation

Unlocking the Key to a Life-giving Marriage: The Art of Negotiation

YouTube

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Do you remember the electrifying feeling of attraction when you first met your spouse? The spark, the butterflies, the surge of energy—it’s an unforgettable sensation. That initial attraction led you down the aisle, but once the honeymoon phase fades, how do you sustain that spark amidst life’s challenges, the chaos of parenting, the march of […]

5 keys to keeping the spark alive in your marriage

YouTube

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Do you ever find yourself yearning for more compliments from your spouse? Does it sometimes feel like a cloud of frustration and then bitterness hovers when those words of affirmation are scarce? Well, you’re not alone. In our latest podcast episode, my husband Jeff and I dive deep into the world of compliments in marriage. […]

Rekindling the Flame: The Importance of Compliments in Marriage

Podcast

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Do you know the importance of a bedtime routine in a marriage? Marriage is a journey that spans years, filled with countless shared moments, experiences, and memories. Yet, one often overlooked aspect of a successful marriage is the bedtime routine. It may seem trivial, but if you’re married for 50 years, you’ll have approximately 17,800 […]

The Importance of a Bedtime Routine in a Marriage

YouTube

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If I had the key to experiencing your own marriage miracle, would you want it? Are you skeptical about the possibility of marriage miracles in today’s world of increasing divorce rates? I’m here to tell you that they absolutely happen! Four couples who I have had the pleasure of working with this summer, went from […]

The Key to Experiencing Your Own Marriage Miracle.

YouTube

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Have you ever found yourself in a heated argument with your spouse or loved one, both passionately exclaiming, “I’m right!”? If you have, you’re not alone. However, did you know that your need to be right damages your relationships, and creates loneliness with the people you love, especially your spouse? There is a hidden cost to […]

The Hidden Cost of Always Being Right

YouTube

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