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My superpower is helping couples learn to see & understand each other even in difficult conversations .... so they can spend their precious time laughing & enjoying life together.  

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If I had the key to experiencing your own marriage miracle, would you want it? Are you skeptical about the possibility of marriage miracles in today’s world of increasing divorce rates? I’m here to tell you that they absolutely happen! Four couples who I have had the pleasure of working with this summer, went from […]

The Key to Experiencing Your Own Marriage Miracle.

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Have you ever found yourself in a heated argument with your spouse or loved one, both passionately exclaiming, “I’m right!”? If you have, you’re not alone. However, did you know that your need to be right damages your relationships, and creates loneliness with the people you love, especially your spouse? There is a hidden cost to […]

The Hidden Cost of Always Being Right

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Mental health in marriage is a topic that affects many of us but is often kept in the shadows. It’s a crucial issue that can’t be ignored, as research shows that 1 out of every 2 people will be diagnosed with a mental health illness in their lifetime.  Today’s post shares me and my husband’s […]

From Enablers to Empowered Partners: How We Took Responsibility for Mental Health in Our Marriage

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Do you think it’s possible to go from separated and divorcing to a new marriage in weeks? Do you feel that your marriage is on the brink of divorce? You’re not alone. While Justin and Angie were on a vacation in Jamaica, Angie decided her marriage to Justin was over. During their separation, Angie came […]

From Separated & Divorcing to a New Marriage in Weeks

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Are you tired of countless therapy sessions where little progress seems to occur? If you could get away for a weekend and make leaps and strides in your marriage relationship would you do that? If you had to choose between a vacation with your spouse OR attending a marriage workshop, which would you choose? Be […]

A Marriage Workshop that’s even better than a Vacation (Psst! And it actually works!)

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Have you ever feared that your marriage is not going to last and that you will wind up as another divorce statistic? You don’t have to navigate your marriage in constant worry. In this post, I share with you the 5 secrets that will turn your fear into confidence so that you can have a […]

Avoiding the Divorce Trap: 5 Secrets to a Successful Marriage

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Are you at the place where you have said to yourself, “I can’t do this anymore”? You are not alone.  Laura felt the same way in her and Tom’s marriage when everything came to a head at year 7.  In one pivotal moment through tears, Laura declared, “I can’t do this anymore.”  She wasn’t saying […]

When You Want to Give Up on Your Marriage | Interview with Tom & Laura

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There’s nothing worse than being in a marriage that is NOT working and having no idea how to shift things. Today, I want to share with you three reasons why your marriage is breaking down and what you can do about it! 3 Reasons Why Your Marriage Isn’t Working Reason #1: You see your spouse […]

3 Reasons Why Your Marriage Isn’t Working.

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One of the biggest connection blockers in marriage is defensiveness. Defensiveness causes disconnection in relationships and can deteriorate a couple’s bond. There are four defensive reactions that block connection with our spouse and today, my latest YouTube episode shares four of the most defensive reactions people use in relationships, and how you can stop them. Watch […]

The 4 Defensive Reactions that Block Connection With Your Spouse

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